Accused Rapist Wants Some Of That Myspace Money, Too
from the myspace-made-me-do-it dept
Earlier this week, a 14-year-old girl and her mother sued Myspace for $30 million, alleging the site failed to protect her from being sexually assaulted by a 19-year-old guy. Now, in a bizarre twist, the man's attorney says that if Myspace is liable for not keeping the girl out of harm's way, his client might also have a claim for damages, since the girl misrepresented her age, adding that the accused rapist, who's admitted having sex with the girl, is "just as much a victim -- if not more." This case, should it be filed, would be even more spurious than the girl's claim -- the fact that the two met on MySpace has absolutely nothing to do with the alleged sexual assault, and the guy really doesn't have much of a case if he's basing his on the girl lying about her age, since he apparently falsely represented himself as a high school football player. It's impossible to describe these suits as anything other than ridiculous, but with all the hype of the dangers of Myspace and other social-networking sites -- and the money flowing around -- inevitably, there will be more.
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Burn in Hell!
Everyone already knows who is to blame for this is the mother for not being a good parent and being more involved in her daughters life. But I also blame the boy's parents as well for not raising their son to be respectful of others and to teach him it is NOT ok to sexually assault someone!
He should be shot or at least castrated.....and the mother should be jailed for child neglect and endagerment!
I'm tired of parents who are so involved in their own life and use a computer, tv, etc... to babysit and teach their kids instead of themselves being a responsible parent!
HERE IS A NEWS FLASH FOR ALL ADULTS... IF YOU DO NOT HAVE THE TIME TO BE ACTIVELY INVOLVED IN YOUR CHILDS LIFE, THEN DO NOT HAVE KIDS!
Also here is another tip for parents....before you go out and buy on of them fancy new gadgets called a computer, GO TAKE A CLASS ON COMPUTERS AND INTERNET SAFETY!!!!!
The guy, both Lawyers, and the Mother should all BURN
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That said - MYspace is one of the most dangerous site there is. It should be either shut down or severely restricted. When I first heard what kind of site it is, before any of the hype, I knew it was dangerous. Unfortunately, most teenagers don't have parents with this knowledge. I have already found several of her friends profiles and alerted their parents. My point - MYSPACE is
DANGEROUS!!!
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your kid is a lier, she is crafty and only cares about herself. she was reaching out for some reason that your busy life was unable to notice.
unfortunately she will prob do it again, either in a chat room, email or even the mall. well guess what its been happening for years, myspace is just another place.
go get a program called kazzalight. search for the term teen web cam, preteen web cam, PTHC web cam...you will be suprised as to what these girls willingly do on the web cam.
lets hope that your incorrectly raised kid does not have a web cam either...
good luck with your child who you failed to even admit that you possibly WERE at fault for failing to raise your child properly....and it might not have been a silly web sites fault...hmmm
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Myspace is dangerous? Nooooo, a nuke is dangerous.
Myspace is a fucking website for people to post pictures and meet others. Just because some little whore screws an older guy doesnt mean it's "dangerous".
CONTROL YOUR FUCKING CHILDREN YOU IDIOTS.
Abortion should be law if your IQ doesnt reach a certain level.
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Come on Techie
Nothing more, nothing less. He lied, she lied. No one got hurt but her parent's pride and reputation.
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Why should the guy burn when some slut lies about her age, has sex, and then panics and yells "rape"?
If this whole case is a she said/he said, they should all be spanked and sent home since all they are doing is wasting everyone's time!
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Sue'em all
Both parties lied. They misrepresented themselves for weeks prior to the meeting and jumped at the chance to take their "relationship" to the next level. Unless the guy forced himself on the girl, he's not guilty of rape. The only thing we're seeing here is that the parents disapproved of their daughter having sex. Rather than keep it all private, they're trying to destroy the guy, Myspace and anyone else that they can. If the guy had to see the inside of a jail, the parents should be required to the same fate. What they're doing is wrong and the courts should dismiss the case. The media, on the other hand, just likes to stir the cauldron.
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statutory rape anyone?
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Slut NO, unless she has slept with half the football team. Not to Intelligent, Naive, and not educated in protecting herself, Yes!
There is a thing called Statutory Rape? Also NO MEANS NO!
I will admit it is very easy for a 14yr old girl to look much older than she is, but men should be much smarter in exercing precaution in dating and make better judgement calls! Unless you want your next date to be Bubba in cell block 6!!!
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techie...
If you want to make your opinion truly known, stay away from anonymous discussion forums. Because, really, all you are doing is wasting your time on irrelevance (like I am doing right now).
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WTF?!
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crazy
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hidden point/cheap shot?
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THEY BOTH LIED FOR CONSENSUAL SEX
She told either a friend and/or her mother and her mother immediately said, "You've been raped!"
It's only in the past 100 years that our society started all of this crap about some "taking advantage of" crap when for CENTURIES men have had MULTIPLE YOUNG WIVES and girls of BIOLOGICAL AGE!!! It's not like these girls are not even THINKING about sex or that they are below the age of breeding which would be sick.
People sit around and debate this crap with the 'idea' that the poor little girl is being victimized. Why is there so much focus on the GIRL being victimized? It is a NATURAL part of life for when a girl is of biological age to WANT SEX, yet we try and push this idea like they NEVER HAVE WANTED IT or even though about sex!! Where was all of that before we came to this country??? What's funny to me is that all of the mothers that scream rape KNOW all of the dirty little things they did and they are merely trying to keep their daughters from it.
Meanwhile, let your kids see TV shows and movies about murderous serial killers and let them believe that war is 'ok' as long as the people you are fighting are pagans or terrorists. Oh but for GAWD's sake .... don't have sex!!!
This is all more destructive to the psyche AND to healthy sexual progression than those that ARE sexually deviant!!!
STOP THE PURITANISM BEFORE YOU DESTROY YOUR KIDS MINDS!!!!
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this is just sad
i just can't help laughing about it.
my god.
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Common sense
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I am Suing MySpace...
I have been victimized by them all, I guess. At least that is what my lawyer tells me.
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responsibility
I think it is sad that we are so quick to shift the blame. Let's blame the mom because she wasn't internet savy enough to make sure her daughter was making wise decisions. Let's blame the guy for not being careful enough and making sure she was of legal age. Let's blame the girl for being promiscuous and misleading when isn't that what we're demonstrating to our children these days between music and fashion. We encourage looking older and being "attractive" just to get men to sleep with us.
So now who is to blame?
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Holy garbage bat man
Yes, the girl lied, the guy had sex with an underage child (yes child) and the mother is probably a slut as well, but how can we keep this from happening in the future? What measures can be taken to be sure that this kind of crapola doesn't continue to take up space on blogs and feeds?
Perhaps all three should be sent to prison. Maybe they should all be fined, including MYSPACE. Maybe they should all be sterilized and sent to Topeka, KS to be with Fred (I'll protest a funeral) Phelps, but for God's sake, let's stop pointing fingers and get on with life.
They will sue MYSPACE, they will settle for a new trailer home and a trans-am, the guy will continue with his mullett and the girl will have 5 kids by the time she is 21. The mother will have emphysema from chain smoking cheap smokes and they will all live happily ever after on our tax dollars...but for Gawds sake, lets get over it.
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Online Game Becomes Sexploitation Site
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They should first sue the mining companies who mine copper for the wires and PCB's on computers
Then sue the plastics companies too, afterall - they make the plastic for the computers and insulation for the wiring
Then they can sue the tool manufacturers who made the punchdown tools and screwdivers needed to install the ethernet cable
Then sue the power company for providing power for the computers, don't forget the phone company too and the companies who make romex wire to wire the house and the makers of the routers used to route the traffic from the computers.
Then sue the homebuilders for building houses where the computers were being used. Don't forget all the subcontrators who built the houses too, and the heavy machinery companies too, afterall if they didn't make bulldozers, they couldn't have built the house the computer was in.
Can't forget the auto-makers. Afterall, I suspect at least one car was used to facilitate their meeting
Should also sue the maker of the desk used to hold the computers, afterall without a desk it may have made the computer harder to use and this would have never happened.
Then the police in both areas shoudl be sued for not stopping this in advance.
Then they shoudl sue the government for NOT PUTTING THEM IN THE ASYLUM WHERE THEY ALL BELONG!
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Future Judges of America
Its all comedy til you see it ruin a nineteen year olds life. My cousin was in the same situation but met the girl at a bar, she said she was 22, she was a fourteen year old with a fine body in a bar(in Virginia). He will have to register as a sex offender for at least 10 years possibly life if he gets too many speeding tickets. And all cause some little horny girl can't just have sex with other fourteen year olds, or shut up about it to her parents.
She even testified at his trail that she lied to him about her age, she was drinking in a bar, and that it was consentual he still went to jail for stat. rape. Sick sad system
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Hoochie!
2. girl meets older guy on line +
3. girl agrees to meet guy in person +
= girl had intentions to meet an older guy.
Why?
what happens when girls meet older guys ... they brag about having an older BF or they just want sex from someone that actually might know what they are doing.
Her parents should be held accountable for neglecting to supervise her and keeping her out of harms way.
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I'm glad this case is happening
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Ridiculous
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wait a minute, were part of NORAD, can I sue them?
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Just to rub it in a little more...
Thank you, I wish there were more ignorant people out there that can pretend they know something about a situation and act accordingly. You are a true hero. Now go practice REAL parenting, not your supermax prison style propoganda.
Again, kids can't even breath in todays world, even in the last 5 years it has grown in severity. Parents rely on 'safety measures' in order to make up for their shortcommings as parents.
Lisa, most of these people are just upset because you do not seem to understand the real issue at hand. I am a little upset as well, because as a parent you should be able to read your kid, however, most kids are so crafy and skilled at telling lies, that they completely fool their parents. It is not Myspace that is at fault here, its a break down in society and you are just helping it along by not solving the problem where it started, your daughter.
Best of luck in your computer repair business, thanks for keeping food on my table.
-Mike
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What I don't get is...
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wow
http://myspace.com/j0ey69
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http://phizun.com
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i think its her fault
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Mom loves the cock too and probably can't imagine her sweet daughter doing the same dirty acts she got into and screams rape.
The poor dude in all this is pretty much like any teenager.. Just wants to get laid.
The world is becoming waaaaaaaaayyyyy too precious.
Maybe if more people were having sex and less people were fighting wars, the world would be a sweet place to live baby.
'Live to score, not for war' lol.
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http://phizun.com
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Norad
Wait a minute, were part of Norad, can I sue them?
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Men being careful
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that T bitch
so its more her falt 4bein fuckin stupid
and castrate fuck that
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O and
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