Virtual Schools, Real Connections?
from the different,-not-worse... dept
It's not entirely clear why some people still insist that just because communication is done via a computer screen, it's somehow "less personal." Plenty of studies (and personal experiences) have shown that computers and the internet have helped many people build strong personal relationships with others, where it would have been nearly impossible without those tools. However, some people simply can't let go of the idea that it's somehow a lower quality relationship. That's prompted a teacher for an online distance learning K-12 program to write up a response to someone who claimed that students couldn't be truly inspired by a distance learning teacher. The teacher, who previously had taught in traditional schools has found the opposite to be true. Yes, there are differences. Certain aspects of an in-classroom experience cannot adequately be reproduced. But, at the same time, the online interaction can often allow for a much more personalized experience that does inspire the students. It's just not always in the same way as an in classroom experience might.Thank you for reading this Techdirt post. With so many things competing for everyone’s attention these days, we really appreciate you giving us your time. We work hard every day to put quality content out there for our community.
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It IS Less Personal
Of course, for some people, that's actually a good thing. Shy people can benefit in a less personal environment. Ugly people and people with bad voices can benefit by filtering out those problems.
So, while computer communications are certainly less personal, that doesn't necessarily mean they are "lower quality".
That's absolutely true — and quite irrelevant. Yes, great relationships can be built online, but that doesn't mean the medium isn't "less personal". Only people who assume that a less personal medium is an insurmountable impediment to a relationship would have a problem, I think.[ link to this | view in chronology ]
Confusion Between
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Its less personal because (as he says below) you are more removed from the person you are connecting with. Communication is through a narrow pipeline (text, either IM or through a narrower pipeline, email) and that makes it "less" personal, in the physical sense.
However, in the emotional sense, such communication can be much deeper as you say. Conversations CAN (and DO) become more in-depth and as such, more personal in the emotional sense.
These pundits do tend to confuse one and the other, assuming less of the first engenders less of the second rather than more (at times).
The real danger is the illusion that such emotional contact can give...you SEEM closer, but you aren't ALWAYS closer. There's always a difference between what is communicated and the reality and its that difference that determines the validity of that "personal" contact, emotionally speaking.
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What Is Personal?
As for taking time to think things out, that's true, but studies have also shown that the less personal the form of communication, the more likely there is to be "bad" results, like flame wars. People will say things online that they would never say in person. Yes, you can argue that that's "more honest", but whether that's better or worse depends on the situation.
Regardless, it's definitely less personal.
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