when I have kids, I plan to be very open with them when they ask about sex, I also plan to ensure that once they start showing interest in sex, that they know how a condom works....
Unlike some sick fucks(the ac here for example) I dont feel the best method to "protect" kids is to treat them like they are idiots.
teach them to take responsibility for their actions, teach them the facts, let them make their own choices, and help them learn from their mistakes.
I do find it funny that if this where a 14yo boy who murdered somebody people would be fine with adult charges being filed and them being held culpable for their actions.
but because its a girl who choose to have sex at 14, shes a delecate flower who was in no way to blame for that choice.
and again, what this guy did was horrible and sickening, but it wasnt rape, it was an abuse of power, position and influence, and hes been punished for it....
and he will be punished for it for the rest of his life....
i know to some thats not enough but to me.....well, im shocked he didnt just commit suicide when he was put on the SO registry....once you are labled a sex offender, you cant get meaningful work, you cant live most places, and you constantly have to worry about being attacked by some nut who saw you on a website and decided to take the law into their own hands.
but most here wouldnt, as was shown when a few of us brought this stuff up in groups on facebook just to see the reactions.
many people ended up admitting they view boys as less fragile and more mature then girls, even though they admit girls mature emotionally earlier then boys.
its a social perception in our society that girls need protected and boys need blamed/punished.
again, im not defending this guys actions, he needed punished for his actions, I still content this isnt rape, its abuse of position and influence, and honestly, hes punished quite well now...rest of his life, hes gonna have to struggle to get jobs, places to live, and always have to look over his shoulder for people who want to kill him for being on the SO registry...
read that list, you cant have heterosexual sex without it being rape.
and sory but, if somebody cons you out of something its not the same thing, and, its a life lesson...if you dont learn from it, then your far worse then most teens i have met...most of them learn from their mistakes...but so do most adults.....some never gain that skill.....im starting to think you are one of them.....hope your not sexually active....anybody who has sex with you is a rapist.
they should change it to "till you can pass a test that says your emotionally and psychologically read to have a sexual relationship"
that way, some people would never be allowed to have sex....since Im sure we have all met people who even at advancd age are not mature enough to deal with an adult relaitonship.
oh btw, may wana read the story behind your link, pressure from outside is driving them to change the law, just as they have been pressured into passing laws to try and stop "piracy"
i really dont give a shit, Im not a pedo, I even avoid contact with minors as a general rule....and anybody who may be minor infact.....
to many who look older then they are and have fake ID's that look legit....not worth the risk....safer to date my hand....
"The Daily News Journal of Murfreesboro reports that Michaela Morales, 23, received nearly a year of probation, must perform 24 hours of community service and must pay preacher John McGlone $80 in restitution."
hence pussy pass, less then a year probation, $80 and 24hrs community service for assult....show me a man who did what she did who would get that kinda pass.....
she assaults him, causes serious harm, and gets a $80 fine, probation and some community service.....if a man did the same thing, your talking about jail or even prison time, huge fines and probation for years.
guess thats ok though, because its ok to give females a pass....*rolls eyes*
nowhere does it say he groomed her, infact, it dosnt even say he coerced into having sex.
he was in the wrong, he was in a position of power and influance over her, and by law she was to stupid to be able to take responsibility for her choices...
again read the back story, he did treatment, the jail time(not prison) is for being kicked out of one treatment program, despite the fact he finished another one.
its quite likely, reading the story and other info i could find via google, that the reason the judge was so lenient with him(and the DA agreed) was to spare the girl the trauma of a trial and watching him to to prison.
again, he was wrong, he needed punished, but, it wasnt rape by the definition society invisions as rape(forced sex)
if you want to believe 14yo's are to stupid to be responsible for their actions, and wantto believe thats how the law sees them, you need to look how they are treated when they kill people or commit armed robery or send nude pix of themselves to others...in all cases, they are tried as adults.....and punished as adults.
oh its illegal in all states AFIK, and for good reason, again, please understand, Im not defending his actions, I just dont think it should be called rape....because its not.....
its an abuse of possition and influance....but its not rape...
saying this is rape is like saying talking an of age girl into having sex with you is rape...(neofeminists believe this mind you)
some people are more culpable for their choices/actions then others, but, the fact is, many adults are stupid and easily talked into things, and many teens are as well, but I would say you have at least an equal number of teens who are hard to convense to do anything....including stuff like brushing their teeth.....
again im not condoning this assholes actions, but, I also think the girls wishes and emotions needed taken into acct, and thats quite likely why the judge did what he did years ago and did this time despite her offing herself....
I still have yet to see proof she killed herself over the relationship rather then something else.
doubt he had to, you must not be around many teens in this country in recent years....
I see them regularly flerting with guys, wearing whore gear/slut gear, hell, you would be shocked what I see out th window at work....they get off the school buss and look like its full of hookers.....(makes me wana gag honestly)
at least 1/2 of them dress that way and act that way....i dont condone it but I dont pretend its not a fact....
cops here catch lots of under age girls drunk at parties, again i dont condone it but, they do it...many have fake ID's and get into bars and clubs.....
sorry but teen girls are not clueless little angels who cant understand what they are doing....many of them are as predatory as males out looking for some ass....yes even at 14...perhaps ask some women from recent generations who are now past that age but remember what it was like....I think you will find that, many of them where "on the make" as it where even at that age....
again, i dont condone it, but, I also dont pretend its not true because that makes me feel better.
its also why I dont go out and pickup women or even flert with women I dont know are over age....because the risk of being labeled pedo/exct is just to great....its not worth the risk.....
specially in states where they have statutory rape laws.....in those states you can meet a girl who looks 25 has an id saying shes of age....and still endup a sex offender if the id was fake.....google it, its quite common now days...and its caused me to decide, dating/flerting/exct arent worth the risk.....best to date my hand rather then risk prison.
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I dont defend this guys actions, I just dont feel it was rape.
as to a 14yo boy and a priest....his own fault for allowing it to happen, sorry but, IMHO 14 is old enough that he/she need to take responcibility for their own actions.
if they killed somebody they would be charged as adults, if they sent somebody nude of themselves they would be charged as adults, yet, they are considered to young to decide if they wana fuck somebody.....dosnt that seem odd?
oh yeah, and good to know you feel spain is a 3rd world country....
and that states that changed the law in recent years from 13 to 16 or 18 did it because magically girls got dumber.....amazing....good to know that people are getting dumber and less responsible for their own decisions with regard to sex, but if its murder or theft or sending nude pix of themselves, they are adults and culpable for their actions.
funny, i have watched many 14yo's be the manipulator of their parents and others....
your kids must be pretty fucking sheltered and stupid if you think they cant think for themselves.
yes some are pretty stupid, but so are many adults....male and female....
and you didnt read the actual story, so your "not justice for the girl" comment....invalid.
he was wrong, he did something very wrong and very very creepy, but it wasnt rape, and very likely the reason the judge didnt throw the book at him....the girl it seems didnt want that(from what i read) and it likely would have caused her more emotional stress/damage if he where tossed in prison for 30years(or life) as many of you would like.
I have empathy for both of them, for her because, either way, she got the short end of the stick, and for him because, no matter what happens, his life will suck till it ends....hes a registered sex offender, hes not going to be able to get a decent job, live in a decent community....even though it seems the court and treatment providers feel hes not really a threat to anybody.....
perhaps for him it would have been better if they had the death penalty for statutory rape, it would have made many people happy, and would have given them a sense that the girl got justice.
and he wouldnt have to live a life where hes gotta look over his shoulder constantly wondering if somebody is gonna try and kill him because hes a sex offender.
nope, if you conn me out of my possessions i was not robbed I was stupid and leanered a lesson.
just as if you con a girl into having sex with you, you didnt rape her.
and, neither would be worse, they would both be lessions life teaches.
how do you know they feel they where conned into sex?
having read comments by girls who had sex with older men at those ages most dont feel they where conned.....infact most of them say they got what they went after....
some say they where stupid and should have waited, but have yet to see one say they felt like they where stupid and it ruined their lives....(part of an fb group where we talk about alot of this stuff, several of the girls/women talk about this stuff quite openly)
and the girls would laugh at you saying 14yo's are to young to give consent....feel free to look up the group "Gender Discussions" on facebook and join, feel free to tell them they where conned and are stupid and wherent able to choose to have sex at 14....i will enjoy them taring you apart...(mind all are over age now before you accuse me of anything)
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if you con me out of all my possessions, it was my fault for being conned, live and learn, I have been conned out of things, and i learned from it.
i wouldnt concent to being fucked by anybody so thats moot.
sorry, this dosnt count as pedophilia, look up the definition, 0-11 is pedophilia 14-19 is Ephebophilia, and, in our system, anybody even accused of a sex crime ends up persecuted, because once accused, your fucked, even if your found innocent, its out there and a background check will show it, makes it hard to get work, ask anybody whos been there....
i got a good friend who was accused when he was in Ohio, a girl in Washington state accused him of rape during that time, he cant find a decent job now because background checks show he was accused.....never mind the fact that they dropped the case the day of trial, (after he refused a last minute plee offer)
hes not even on the SO regestry and hes got these problems, how do you think it effects people who are on the registry?
murderes have an easier time getting work then somebody whos even been accused of a sex crime....
good to see your for life long punishment for select crimes or even accusations but not others.
you say it was rape, I say it was an abuse of possition and influanc, that he was punished for....and will be for the rest of his life......
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the judge ruled it was a minor violation, sorry that bothers you.
and the fact is, the treatment providers evaluated him and ruled him a low risk, he also had a relationship with a woman, something many treatment programs do not allow, but do not bother to tell people they dont allow.
he was accepted into another program and completed it.
and you are acting like hes a pedo, hes not, at worst hes an Ephebophile (14-19yo age range) and, the court im sure recognized that as well, or he would have done more time.
I love how you conflate 14yo with little kiddies....please tell a group of 14yo girls they are teh same as 0-11 year olds and see how that turns out for you....
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then can you explain why the AoC is different state to state country to country?
is as some above insist spain a 3rd world country and thats the reason their AoC is 13?
or could it be their society views sex in a less theistic light?
alot of our laws about age and sex are directly related to victorian values our religious population follow.
many states raised the AoC to combat problems created by their religious drive for abstinence only sex education rather then, you know, teach kids to use condoms and how to avoid getting knocked up/getting somebody knocked up.
(sadly im not kidding about the above....wish i was..)
I do no condone what this asshole did, I dont agree with it, but it was not rape....it was abuse of power and position, and he needed punished, he has been, and better yet, and this should make everybody here very happy, hes marked for life, he will never be able to get a decent job, or live in a decent area, hes a sex offender, he also will always be at risk of some vigilanty deciding he needs killin.(its happened quite a bit in this country)
he didnt get off scott free despite what the post implys (read the story not the blerb tim posted.)
again, to make it clear, I think he needed punished, I do not agree with what he did, I just dont believe its rape....not as our society invisions rape.
he didnt force her to have sex with him....he conned/coerced her but thats not rape...if it was many guys here would be in jail for coercing women into having sex with them.....(according to many neofeminists that is rape, as is all hetero sex...)
hes been punished, hes going to be punished the rest of his life, hes a registered sex offender....do you really think hes going to have a decent life with that on his record for life?
clearly this list of first/second/3rd are very very wrong and need edited by the experts here on techdirt to fix the flaws that show spain and some other countries with 13 AoC in their proper 3rd world placement.
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its become more common to go after then in recent years, but, its also quite common for the law to just ignore it if somebody dosnt raise hell to get them to do something about it.
I have had people admit to this attitude on FB talks about this shit, its OK if its an "under age" boy doing a female adult, but other way around, holy fuck, the male needs burned at the stake!!!
again, i have to say this, I DO NOT CONDONE WHAT HE DID but, it wasnt rape, it was wrong, and he got punished, but so did she, the guilt and fall out likely give her some serious emotional trauma....would have been even worse if they sent him to prison I would bet....and thats likely why the judge did what he did in the first place....
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Unlike some sick fucks(the ac here for example) I dont feel the best method to "protect" kids is to treat them like they are idiots.
teach them to take responsibility for their actions, teach them the facts, let them make their own choices, and help them learn from their mistakes.
I do find it funny that if this where a 14yo boy who murdered somebody people would be fine with adult charges being filed and them being held culpable for their actions.
but because its a girl who choose to have sex at 14, shes a delecate flower who was in no way to blame for that choice.
and again, what this guy did was horrible and sickening, but it wasnt rape, it was an abuse of power, position and influence, and hes been punished for it....
and he will be punished for it for the rest of his life....
i know to some thats not enough but to me.....well, im shocked he didnt just commit suicide when he was put on the SO registry....once you are labled a sex offender, you cant get meaningful work, you cant live most places, and you constantly have to worry about being attacked by some nut who saw you on a website and decided to take the law into their own hands.
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by your responses its quite clear you are one of those peole who never will be mature enough to deal with a sexual or adult relationship.
anybody stupid enough to have sex with you should be tossed in prison....
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many people ended up admitting they view boys as less fragile and more mature then girls, even though they admit girls mature emotionally earlier then boys.
its a social perception in our society that girls need protected and boys need blamed/punished.
again, im not defending this guys actions, he needed punished for his actions, I still content this isnt rape, its abuse of position and influence, and honestly, hes punished quite well now...rest of his life, hes gonna have to struggle to get jobs, places to live, and always have to look over his shoulder for people who want to kill him for being on the SO registry...
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read that list, you cant have heterosexual sex without it being rape.
and sory but, if somebody cons you out of something its not the same thing, and, its a life lesson...if you dont learn from it, then your far worse then most teens i have met...most of them learn from their mistakes...but so do most adults.....some never gain that skill.....im starting to think you are one of them.....hope your not sexually active....anybody who has sex with you is a rapist.
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http://archiveofthebitingbeaver.wordpress.com/2008/05/31/the-rapist-checklist-repost/
so by that, every guy I know whos not gay is a rapist.
and thats a list by a feminist who really believes its contents, i suggest you read it, then start dating your hand....
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that way, some people would never be allowed to have sex....since Im sure we have all met people who even at advancd age are not mature enough to deal with an adult relaitonship.
oh btw, may wana read the story behind your link, pressure from outside is driving them to change the law, just as they have been pressured into passing laws to try and stop "piracy"
i really dont give a shit, Im not a pedo, I even avoid contact with minors as a general rule....and anybody who may be minor infact.....
to many who look older then they are and have fake ID's that look legit....not worth the risk....safer to date my hand....
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http://www.avoiceformen.com/video/false-a llegation-and-assault-at-once/
http://www.kwtx.com/news/headlines/84403687.html?device=phone& device=tablet
"The Daily News Journal of Murfreesboro reports that Michaela Morales, 23, received nearly a year of probation, must perform 24 hours of community service and must pay preacher John McGlone $80 in restitution."
hence pussy pass, less then a year probation, $80 and 24hrs community service for assult....show me a man who did what she did who would get that kinda pass.....
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she assaults him, causes serious harm, and gets a $80 fine, probation and some community service.....if a man did the same thing, your talking about jail or even prison time, huge fines and probation for years.
guess thats ok though, because its ok to give females a pass....*rolls eyes*
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he was in the wrong, he was in a position of power and influance over her, and by law she was to stupid to be able to take responsibility for her choices...
again read the back story, he did treatment, the jail time(not prison) is for being kicked out of one treatment program, despite the fact he finished another one.
its quite likely, reading the story and other info i could find via google, that the reason the judge was so lenient with him(and the DA agreed) was to spare the girl the trauma of a trial and watching him to to prison.
again, he was wrong, he needed punished, but, it wasnt rape by the definition society invisions as rape(forced sex)
if you want to believe 14yo's are to stupid to be responsible for their actions, and wantto believe thats how the law sees them, you need to look how they are treated when they kill people or commit armed robery or send nude pix of themselves to others...in all cases, they are tried as adults.....and punished as adults.
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its an abuse of possition and influance....but its not rape...
saying this is rape is like saying talking an of age girl into having sex with you is rape...(neofeminists believe this mind you)
some people are more culpable for their choices/actions then others, but, the fact is, many adults are stupid and easily talked into things, and many teens are as well, but I would say you have at least an equal number of teens who are hard to convense to do anything....including stuff like brushing their teeth.....
again im not condoning this assholes actions, but, I also think the girls wishes and emotions needed taken into acct, and thats quite likely why the judge did what he did years ago and did this time despite her offing herself....
I still have yet to see proof she killed herself over the relationship rather then something else.
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I see them regularly flerting with guys, wearing whore gear/slut gear, hell, you would be shocked what I see out th window at work....they get off the school buss and look like its full of hookers.....(makes me wana gag honestly)
at least 1/2 of them dress that way and act that way....i dont condone it but I dont pretend its not a fact....
cops here catch lots of under age girls drunk at parties, again i dont condone it but, they do it...many have fake ID's and get into bars and clubs.....
sorry but teen girls are not clueless little angels who cant understand what they are doing....many of them are as predatory as males out looking for some ass....yes even at 14...perhaps ask some women from recent generations who are now past that age but remember what it was like....I think you will find that, many of them where "on the make" as it where even at that age....
again, i dont condone it, but, I also dont pretend its not true because that makes me feel better.
its also why I dont go out and pickup women or even flert with women I dont know are over age....because the risk of being labeled pedo/exct is just to great....its not worth the risk.....
specially in states where they have statutory rape laws.....in those states you can meet a girl who looks 25 has an id saying shes of age....and still endup a sex offender if the id was fake.....google it, its quite common now days...and its caused me to decide, dating/flerting/exct arent worth the risk.....best to date my hand rather then risk prison.
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as to a 14yo boy and a priest....his own fault for allowing it to happen, sorry but, IMHO 14 is old enough that he/she need to take responcibility for their own actions.
if they killed somebody they would be charged as adults, if they sent somebody nude of themselves they would be charged as adults, yet, they are considered to young to decide if they wana fuck somebody.....dosnt that seem odd?
oh yeah, and good to know you feel spain is a 3rd world country....
and that states that changed the law in recent years from 13 to 16 or 18 did it because magically girls got dumber.....amazing....good to know that people are getting dumber and less responsible for their own decisions with regard to sex, but if its murder or theft or sending nude pix of themselves, they are adults and culpable for their actions.
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your kids must be pretty fucking sheltered and stupid if you think they cant think for themselves.
yes some are pretty stupid, but so are many adults....male and female....
and you didnt read the actual story, so your "not justice for the girl" comment....invalid.
he was wrong, he did something very wrong and very very creepy, but it wasnt rape, and very likely the reason the judge didnt throw the book at him....the girl it seems didnt want that(from what i read) and it likely would have caused her more emotional stress/damage if he where tossed in prison for 30years(or life) as many of you would like.
I have empathy for both of them, for her because, either way, she got the short end of the stick, and for him because, no matter what happens, his life will suck till it ends....hes a registered sex offender, hes not going to be able to get a decent job, live in a decent community....even though it seems the court and treatment providers feel hes not really a threat to anybody.....
perhaps for him it would have been better if they had the death penalty for statutory rape, it would have made many people happy, and would have given them a sense that the girl got justice.
and he wouldnt have to live a life where hes gotta look over his shoulder constantly wondering if somebody is gonna try and kill him because hes a sex offender.
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just as if you con a girl into having sex with you, you didnt rape her.
and, neither would be worse, they would both be lessions life teaches.
how do you know they feel they where conned into sex?
having read comments by girls who had sex with older men at those ages most dont feel they where conned.....infact most of them say they got what they went after....
some say they where stupid and should have waited, but have yet to see one say they felt like they where stupid and it ruined their lives....(part of an fb group where we talk about alot of this stuff, several of the girls/women talk about this stuff quite openly)
and the girls would laugh at you saying 14yo's are to young to give consent....feel free to look up the group "Gender Discussions" on facebook and join, feel free to tell them they where conned and are stupid and wherent able to choose to have sex at 14....i will enjoy them taring you apart...(mind all are over age now before you accuse me of anything)
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i wouldnt concent to being fucked by anybody so thats moot.
sorry, this dosnt count as pedophilia, look up the definition, 0-11 is pedophilia 14-19 is Ephebophilia, and, in our system, anybody even accused of a sex crime ends up persecuted, because once accused, your fucked, even if your found innocent, its out there and a background check will show it, makes it hard to get work, ask anybody whos been there....
i got a good friend who was accused when he was in Ohio, a girl in Washington state accused him of rape during that time, he cant find a decent job now because background checks show he was accused.....never mind the fact that they dropped the case the day of trial, (after he refused a last minute plee offer)
hes not even on the SO regestry and hes got these problems, how do you think it effects people who are on the registry?
murderes have an easier time getting work then somebody whos even been accused of a sex crime....
good to see your for life long punishment for select crimes or even accusations but not others.
you say it was rape, I say it was an abuse of possition and influanc, that he was punished for....and will be for the rest of his life......
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and the fact is, the treatment providers evaluated him and ruled him a low risk, he also had a relationship with a woman, something many treatment programs do not allow, but do not bother to tell people they dont allow.
he was accepted into another program and completed it.
and you are acting like hes a pedo, hes not, at worst hes an Ephebophile (14-19yo age range) and, the court im sure recognized that as well, or he would have done more time.
I love how you conflate 14yo with little kiddies....please tell a group of 14yo girls they are teh same as 0-11 year olds and see how that turns out for you....
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is as some above insist spain a 3rd world country and thats the reason their AoC is 13?
or could it be their society views sex in a less theistic light?
alot of our laws about age and sex are directly related to victorian values our religious population follow.
many states raised the AoC to combat problems created by their religious drive for abstinence only sex education rather then, you know, teach kids to use condoms and how to avoid getting knocked up/getting somebody knocked up.
(sadly im not kidding about the above....wish i was..)
I do no condone what this asshole did, I dont agree with it, but it was not rape....it was abuse of power and position, and he needed punished, he has been, and better yet, and this should make everybody here very happy, hes marked for life, he will never be able to get a decent job, or live in a decent area, hes a sex offender, he also will always be at risk of some vigilanty deciding he needs killin.(its happened quite a bit in this country)
he didnt get off scott free despite what the post implys (read the story not the blerb tim posted.)
again, to make it clear, I think he needed punished, I do not agree with what he did, I just dont believe its rape....not as our society invisions rape.
he didnt force her to have sex with him....he conned/coerced her but thats not rape...if it was many guys here would be in jail for coercing women into having sex with them.....(according to many neofeminists that is rape, as is all hetero sex...)
hes been punished, hes going to be punished the rest of his life, hes a registered sex offender....do you really think hes going to have a decent life with that on his record for life?
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_World
clearly this list of first/second/3rd are very very wrong and need edited by the experts here on techdirt to fix the flaws that show spain and some other countries with 13 AoC in their proper 3rd world placement.
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I have had people admit to this attitude on FB talks about this shit, its OK if its an "under age" boy doing a female adult, but other way around, holy fuck, the male needs burned at the stake!!!
again, i have to say this, I DO NOT CONDONE WHAT HE DID but, it wasnt rape, it was wrong, and he got punished, but so did she, the guilt and fall out likely give her some serious emotional trauma....would have been even worse if they sent him to prison I would bet....and thats likely why the judge did what he did in the first place....
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