Harvey Weinstein Tries Every Possible Response To Explosive NY Times Story
from the wanna-try-that-again,-harvey dept
Last week, the Hollywood Reporter broke the story that famed Hollywood movie mogul Harvey Weinstein (formerly of Miramax and more recently of the Weinstein Company -- from which he was fired over the weekend, despite practically begging for his friends to support him) had seriously lawyered up, hiring three high profile lawyers: David Boies, Lisa Bloom and Charles Harder to deal with two apparent stories that were in the works -- one from the NY Times and another from the New Yorker (two publications not known for backing down from threats) -- about some fairly horrible alleged behavior by Weinstein towards young female actresses, employees and more.
A day later, the NY Times published its article about Harvey Weinstein and, damn, it's quite an article. It details multiple cases of alleged sexual harassment by Weinstein against both employees and hopeful actresses -- and includes claims of Weinstein having to pay off some of those individuals. The article was not based on a single source, but many sources, including one actress (Ashley Judd) willing to put her name behind the accusations (and just as we were completing this post, the New Yorker published its piece which appears to be more detailed and more damning, with more names and even more horrifying stories about Weinstein). And with the NY Times' publication, much of the "legal team" leaped into action. Of course, if you're not familiar with the three lawyers named above, it may help to do a quick review, before we dig in on the myriad (often contradictory) responses we've now seen from Weinstein and his legal team over the past few days.
Boies, of course, shows up everywhere these days, but often not for good reasons. You may recall him representing SCO in its quixotic attack on Linux. Or representing Oracle against Google in claiming that APIs can be copyrightable. Or representing Theranos, the now disgraced biotech firm that exaggerated what it could do. Or representing Sony Pictures when its emails were all leaked, to the point of sending a ridiculous threat letter to us for daring to report on those emails. Lisa Bloom's only appearance here was when she was on the right side of the silly James Woods defamation case against an anonymous tweeter. Many found Bloom's appearance as part of the team quite odd, since she's built her reputation on representing victims of sexual harassment. She later claimed she was just advising Weinstein, rather than acting as his lawyer (hmm....) and then, over the weekend, she resigned from whatever it was that she was doing. However, the NY Times has a quite incredible article suggesting her initial response to the accusations was to effectively go after the women, by posting "photos of several of the accusers in very friendly poses with Harvey after his alleged misconduct." Ick.
And, Charles Harder? What is there that needs to be said about Charles Harder? Oh, right, that he's currently leading the legal team that's suing us in a defamation suit that we've won (though he has since appealed).
Within hours of the article being published, Harder announced that Weinstein would be suing the NY Times for defamation.
"The New York Times published today a story that is saturated with false and defamatory statements about Harvey Weinstein," he writes in an email to The Hollywood Reporter. "It relies on mostly hearsay accounts and a faulty report, apparently stolen from an employee personnel file, which has been debunked by nine different eyewitnesses. We sent the Times the facts and evidence, but they ignored it and rushed to publish. We are preparing the lawsuit now. All proceeds will be donated to women’s organizations."
But here's the thing: Weinstein himself seems to be admitting that many of the accusations are accurate. He's quoted apologizing for his behavior in the initial NY Times article:
In a statement to The Times on Thursday afternoon, Mr. Weinstein said: “I appreciate the way I’ve behaved with colleagues in the past has caused a lot of pain, and I sincerely apologize for it. Though I’m trying to do better, I know I have a long way to go.”
He added that he was working with therapists and planning to take a leave of absence to “deal with this issue head on.”
That seems like an admission. The full statement is even more bizarre:
I came of age in the 60’s and 70’s, when all the rules about behavior and workplaces were different. That was the culture then.
I have since learned it’s not an excuse, in the office - or out of it. To anyone. I realized some time ago that I needed to be a better person and my interactions with the people I work with have changed.
I appreciate the way I’ve behaved with colleagues in the past has caused a lot of pain, and I sincerely apologize for it.
Though I’m trying to do better, I know I have a long way to go. That is my commitment. My journey now will be to learn about myself and conquer my demons. Over the last year I've asked Lisa Bloom to tutor me and she's put together a team of people. I've brought on therapists and I plan to take a leave of absence from my company and to deal with this issue head on. I so respect all women and regret what happened. I hope that my actions will speak louder than words and that one day we will all be able to earn their trust and sit down together with Lisa to learn more. Jay Z wrote in 4:44 "I'm not the man I thought I was and I better be that man for my children." The same is true for me. I want a second chance in the community but I know I've got work to do to earn it. I have goals that are now priorities. Trust me, this isn't an overnight process. I've been trying to do this for 10 years and this is a wake-up call. I cannot be more remorseful about the people I hurt and I plan to do right by all of them.
I am going to need a place to channel that anger so I've decided that I'm going to give the NRA my full attention. I hope Wayne LaPierre will enjoy his retirement party. I'm going to do it at the same place I had my Bar Mitzvah. I'm making a movie about our President, perhaps we can make it a joint retirement party. One year ago, I began organizing a $5 million foundation to give scholarships to women directors at USC. While this might seem coincidental, it has been in the works for a year. It will be named after my mom and I won't disappoint her.
That whole statement is... weird. Others have covered the many problems with it, but it seems like a pretty clear admission. Given that, it's pretty ridiculous to then claim you're suing the NY Times. Under what theory? Well, according to Weinstein, because it didn't give him enough time to respond:
“I mean every word of that apology,” he told TheWrap. “The reason I am suing the New York Times is they didn’t give me enough time to respond.”
Um. What? First of all, he gave an entire statement to the NY Times. So he clearly had time to respond. Second, there's no legal requirement that a news publication needs to give you "enough time to respond," let alone any time to respond. That's not how the press works.
In another interview, he told the NY Post that he's suing because the NY Times wasn't honest with him:
Weinstein said, “What I am saying is that I bear responsibility for my actions, but the reason I am suing is because of the Times’ inability to be honest with me, and their reckless reporting. They told me lies. They made assumptions.
“The Times had a deal with us that they would tell us about the people they had on the record in the story, so we could respond appropriately, but they didn’t live up to the bargain.
“The Times editors were so fearful they were going to be scooped by New York Magazine and they would lose the story, that they went ahead and posted the story filled with reckless reporting, and without checking all they had with me and my team.
Once again, Weinstein seems to be confused about how journalism works -- and what legal requirements there are. Even as rich and powerful as Harvey Weinstein is, there is no legal requirement to give him as much time as he wants to respond. Indeed, his lawyer Bloom admits they had two days:
“Two days ago, after begging, they gave us a couple dozen allegations that spanned 30 years and a dozen countries. They said we have until 1 pm today. We said ‘Why?’ They never said.”
Again, giving two days actually seems kind of generous.
The whole thing seems like Weinstein is trying out any and all possible responses at once. Normally you select one: you deny and sue or you apologize or you try to make a quip and laugh off the accusation. Harvey seems to be doing all of this at once.
He even tried denial (and a quip) before the admission and the threat:
In a brief interview on Wednesday, Weinstein declined to comment on the charges.
"I've not been aware of this," he said. "I don't know what you're talking about, honestly."
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Weinstein later issued a statement through a spokesperson, as did Bloom. “The story sounds so good I want to buy the movie rights,” said Weinstein.
Of course, as the NY Times has pointed out, at no point has Weinstein said what is factually untrue in its reporting. And if you're suing for defamation, that's kind of the first thing you're supposed to do. Meanwhile, it appears that other stories are starting to come out (and they keep coming) -- including some fairly damning claims about attempts to cover up previous investigations. And, perhaps most troubling, a claim that the NY Times had this story a dozen years ago and was pressured into killing it. Of course, perhaps that's the real reason behind the threat of the lawsuit -- to try to scare off others from coming forward. All of the links in this paragraph suggest if that's the theory, well, it's not working. It's also not clear that a lawsuit would be wise. Beyond the failure to give an actual legal reason for the lawsuit so far, as many people have pointed out, it's unclear that Harvey would want to go through the discovery process in such a lawsuit should it get that far.
And, in the meantime, the NY Times has said that Weinstein "should publicly waive the NDAs in the women's agreements so they can tell their stories." If he fails to do so, that says a lot right there.
Still, in the end, it appears that Weinstein's strategy here seems to be... to do all of the following, even if some parts contradict other parts:
- Deny with a quip ("I don't know what you're talking about, honestly." "I want to buy the movie rights.")
- Offer a weak excuse that's not even a real excuse ("I came of age in the 60's and 70's")
- Apologize ("the way I’ve behaved with colleagues in the past has caused a lot of pain," "I cannot be more remorseful about the people I hurt and I plan to do right by all of them.")
- Threaten to sue ("the reason I am suing is because of the Times’ inability to be honest with me, and their reckless reporting")
- Claim the story is not accurate ("a story that is saturated with false and defamatory statements about Harvey Weinstein")
- Say the real problem was that the paper didn't live up to its word ("The Times had a deal with us")
- Also claim that the problem was not enough time to respond (despite responding) ("The reason I am suing the New York Times is they didn’t give me enough time to respond.")
- Deflect from being accused of using your power to bed powerless women by... talking about the NRA?!? ("I'm going to give the NRA my full attention.")
- Insist that you've seen the light and are changing ("I want a second chance in the community but I know I've got work to do to earn it. I have goals that are now priorities. Trust me, this isn't an overnight process. I've been trying to do this for 10 years and this is a wake-up call.")
- Talk about how you've thrown money at womens' issues, as if that makes this okay ("I began organizing a $5 million foundation to give scholarships to women directors at USC.")
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Yet you pirates still want his products.
But the real story is the vast sleaze and power in Hollywood. Yes, I repeat, because focus here shouldn't even be on Masnick's diversion!
IF you pirates would concentrate on exposing corrupt Hollywood using Populist principles (especially tax The Rich) instead of ranting on just "copyright", you'd have a chance of actually weakening its control over all that you view as bad, and thereby reducing this abuse of power and similar. Heavy taxes on The Rich is proven to cure many societal ills.
But no! You pirates just want to kick back, inhale potato chips, smoke dope, and let what's left of your mind fall into fantasies produced by corrupt greaseballs like Weinstein.
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Re: Yet you pirates still want his products.
Maybe we should send you the Three Billy Goads Gruff.
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"The real story is the vast sleaze and power in Hollywood."
That's not the "real" story, it's simply the story. There are other aspects that are just as real and more relevant to Techdirt's audience. There are dozens of other places you can go to read about sleaze and power in Hollywood if that's what gets you all hot and bothered.
"Masnick dodges that by twisting it toward the imminent defamation case."
Or maybe he talked about an aspect of the story that is a topic or regular discussion at Techdirt. No twisting required, except your logic in trying to find something, anything, to criticize.
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The good news is, his horrible behavior may actually have produced something worth watching this time.
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No, but it is completely fair to criticize an attorney for giving poor advice, doing a bad job, or not walking away from a client that is not listening to them.
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If they choose scumbag clients, that's on them. I don't need to respect someone for defending a child molester, rapist, murderer, or women abuser.
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Try to remember that legally defending someone is completely different from actually defending, condoning or supporting their actions. It's intellectually simplistic to attack defense lawyers, they're pretty easy targets after all, but they're absolutely vital to a functioning and just legal system. You do need to have some respect for them, even if you despise their clients.
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You mean accused of the above? How about I accuse you of being a child molesting, raping, murdering woman abuser? Poof! Now you're a scumbag with no rights. Congratulations!
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Whoa
Get ready for your skin to crawl.
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If the multitude of credible accusations had not effectively ended his career, that audio recording would have done the job.
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And now unemployed/available lawyer Hillary is a big Weinstein fan (and vice versa)--- and she's an expert at handling high profile Bimbo Eruptions
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The Clinton's and Obama best buds. Got a lot of money from him to them and the Democrat party.
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PS. Monica was never forced. The blue dress proves nothing, except Bill liked getting blown. No evidence he made her an offer she couldn't refuse, blow me or else...
Why all the fuss now about Hillary? If she was supposed to know what Harvey was up to, then presumably all of Hollywood society should have known too, and by extension all the journalists; and it's the journalists' jobs to expose the truth... and yet it takes 10 or 20 years? Maybe the answer was that the details were not widely enough known, so he was treated as the successful businessman he was, not the predator he was.
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Horrible, isn't it?
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Shocking!
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Their respective cults of personality of their Dear Leaders freaks me out a little. The continual slobbering over Hillary Clinton on the Dem side is just weird. Find a better candidate, already!
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Kind of like the way the 9/11 terrorists are celebrated by Muslims still.
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Wait....
Which is not to say that Gawker's defense was without merit, but when it comes to the kind of muscle that each can bring to bear, there's comparison between Gawker and the Times.
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I don't think it's really about the New York Times and the New Yorker, though; it's about chilling other, smaller outlets that don't have the resources to defend themselves.
Here's a relevant Techdirt story from August:
How Hulk Hogan & Peter Thiel Almost Made Sure That The Story Of R. Kelly's 'Cult' Stayed Unpublished
tl;dr these suits have a ripple effect, and make small-to-mid-sized news outlets think twice before they publish anything critical of somebody who's rich enough to bury them in vexatious litigation.
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Yes, but remember how long it took Techdirt to get Ayyadurai's clearly meritless suit dismissed? And then he appealed. It's still going.
And that's a case where dismissal was a slam-dunk. Read the lower-court ruling; the judge says, straight out, that even if 100% of Shiva's claims are accurate, he hasn't named a single illegal thing that Techdirt did.
And that's just Ayyadurai, a minor public figure who's got some money from the lecture circuit and a previous settlement. Guys like Weinstein have a lot more money than Ayyadurai; they can do what Thiel did and just keep funding other people's lawsuits, whether those suits have merit or not. It's like a DDoS attack using the legal system.
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Oh, yeah, it's so... European.
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Only if they can afford it. Justice ain't free in the US of A.
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From what I understand (IANAL), trial court rulings don't set precedent. If the NYT wins and the suit ends there, then it won't help anyone else (except perhaps to give other outlets a legal strategy to follow).
However if the win gets appealed (odds of which happening are 99.97%, +/- 0.05%), then the appeals court's ruling may set precedent, and help the smaller outlets.
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It this were true then none of these women would be complaining.
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But they are not required to suck·
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Really, who doesn't know this? Of course RUMORS are one thing, a Audio Recording for everyone to hear for themselves and a whole different matter.
I think if anything, what Hollywood will learn from this is to make sure the people doing into the office or wherever, don't have their Smartphone or anything else on them first!! Then back to the same old, same old.
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Unless the audition couch is used.
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He should have tried Harder
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No.
Every defendant deserves competent representation.
Malicious litigants fucking-well do not deserve representation, competent or otherwise.
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Perhaps he's trying for an incompetence defense
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Yet you pirates still want his products.
The real story is the vast sleaze and power in Hollywood. Masnick dodges that by twisting it toward the imminent defamation case.
But the real story is the vast sleaze and power in Hollywood. Yes, I repeat, because focus here shouldn't even be on Masnick's diversion!
IF you pirates would concentrate on exposing corrupt Hollywood using Populist principles (especially tax The Rich) instead of ranting on just "copyright", you'd have a chance of actually weakening its control over all that you view as bad, and incidentally thereby reducing this abuse of power and similar. Heavy taxes on The Rich is proven to cure many societal ills.
But no! You pirates just want to kick back, inhale potato chips, smoke dope, and let what's left of your mind fall into fantasies produced by corrupt greaseballs like Weinstein.
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NINTH attempt! Started around 11:10 Pacific time, and I'm waiting to see if gets in since not urgent topic. I still nearly always find Masnick's articles difficult to get a comment in. A long string of such "coincidence" (as I've mentioned) makes me conclude isn't by chance.
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That again?
Ah, just flag and ignore them, one of their favorite shticks(in addition to the 'report me' flags right off the bat) is to go around whining about how they are being oppressed by the mean old spam filter(which of course must be personally aimed at them) for spamming the same message multiple times, as if 'actions have consequences' isn't a thing, and private platforms have some obligation to post whatever is submitted to them as soon as they post it.
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And then checking back a couple days later, some of them are still not approved to show up after review.
The only consistent pattern to which of my comments NEVER show up is that they express opinions that are to the right of the general consensus on this site.
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Have a RIAA-flavored DMCA vote, asswipe.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=drpgiUP6Yrc
He takes on high profile cases. He just may not be on your side. That's what lawyers do.
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Ahh, fond memories of The Kruschev Hour.
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Which just so happens to be a favorite tactic of Harder.
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A man as powerful as Harvey Weinstein is undoubtedly outraged -- outraged -- that the nation's newspaper of record refuses to bend its knee and act as his personal P.R. firm.
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There may even be merit to judges more aggressively sanctioning some of the unscrupulous lawyers for contempt.
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Don't attorneys tell their clients to keep their nose clean, present *one* face/story to the public/court no matter how complex the situation and their character really is? Tell your lawyer about *all* your shit and then they'll (hopefully) help you both be as ready as you can make yourselves.
There's too much free-flowing information online (not all of it reliable) for people to be this publicly foolish.
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- Conservative here.
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Lawyers are scumbags until you need one
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Isn't every rich guy that is married to a young hot woman doing basically the same thing?
Who is at fault here, the guy or the woman? Think all those Playboy bunnies really wanted to fuck Hugh because they thought he was hot?
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He knows he acted like a lecherous piece of shit. Hell, with these three recent sexual assault allegations, it's looking like he's even worse than that. Of course, only some rich asshole with too much money for his own good would have the gut reaction of holing up in one of his penthouses (while he pays some prick with a wall full of diplomas an ungodly amount by the hour to lie to him that he's not human garbage) instead of settling up.
But that's just what rich fucks do, it seems.
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There's a big difference between "You make me happy and I'll reward you for it," and "Give me access to your body, or your career in show business ends today."
It's the difference between encouraging someone to be willing to sleep with you, and making someone unwilling to not sleep with you; between trying to sway their choice and trying to remove their choice entirely.
If you can't see the difference between incentivization and coercion, you need to get your eyes checked.
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Is that directed @ me (Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2017 @ 6:16pm)?
Because I'm not sure what you're trying to tell me.
I'm well aware that money isn't a factor for most women when they choose a sexual partner. However, you can't deny that there are some women for whom that's the case. Sex work is, so the saying goes, "the oldest profession."
There will always be people who are going to be willing to exchange sex for money, as long as there is a demand for them. Personally, I think that it should be acknowledged as a legitimate profession, and that the people who engage in that profession should be respected for it.
Let's suppose, for the sake of argument, that at least one woman did go to the Playboy mansion with the goal of making Hugh happy and getting wealthy for it. There's still no equivalence between that, a willing exchange of a service for money, and what Weinstein did.
Reiterating a point I've made in my previous post, getting someone to do something that they'd rather not do by giving them money to do it is capitalism, plain and simple.
"I need that [X] as the last piece to complete my collection!" "Well, I'd rather not sell it to you. It has sentimental value." "It's worth ten thousand dollars!" "I'm sorry, I'd rather not part with it." "I'll give you fifty thousand - final offer." "Sold!"
In capitalism, you're not meddling with someone's ability to choose; you're making an unpalatable choice more attractive by piling incentives on.
On the other hand, strong-arming someone to do something for you has all sorts of nasty names: extortion, blackmail, coercion, robbery, and rape. What they all have in common, and what makes it different from simple capitalism, is that instead of making "Yes" possible, you're making "No" impossible. You're depriving the person of their ability to choose for themselves.
That is why what Weinstein did is so much worse than Hugh supposedly luring young women to his side with promises of a lavish lifestyle. "Sure," Hugh says, "I'm a dirty old man, but I'll make it worth your while," whereas Weinstein says, "Do it, and then shut up about it, or I'll destroy you." One is a choice, freely offered and accepted, and the other is driving someone into a corner in which refusing doesn't seem like a valid option.
I'm certainly not saying "wimmin be ho's" is an appropriate attitude to hold towards women (it isn't); however, even if it were true (again, it's not), it wouldn't excuse what Weinstein did. Even "ho's" shouldn't be coerced into sex.
That is all that I'm trying to say, and, if your comment was directed towards me, I don't see how that attitude can be a "lynchpin of rape culture."
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Yes indeed, even the most sexually mercenary people shouldn't be coerced into gratifying some perve. I'm with you there.
However, that's not the conversation I'm having; rape culture is predicated on the idea that women are willing participants in their own degradation but just won't admit it, which is why they are inferior and ought to be treated as such. I see this over and over and over again in the news. I'm glad you are enlightened; others need to get to where you are.
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Who's the predator and who's the prey?
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Yeah, neither do I.
Just a bitchfest for Mike Masnick's twisted obsessions and vendettas.
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Yes, of course, it's Mike that's constantly bitching about stuff and showing obsessive behavior...
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"I came of age in the 60's and 70's"
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Had the patriarchy actually done its job of providing and protecting, the Sexual Revolution might never have happened.
As a conservative I'm torn; I'm supposed to be in favour of the patriarchy but it's so damn awful I just can't be dealing with it. I'm glad I live in the twenty first century - in the UK, where I'm not just a walking incubator, sex toy, or decoration, as I would be in certain locations. I'm absolutely horrified by this: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/man-accused-raping-12-year-old-joint-custody-child-article- 1.3550890
Weinstein's attitude is the same as that paedo-freak's: an over-weening sense of entitlement to the use of a female body on demand.
Until we do more to challenge such attitudes till they end up in the fringes where they belong, such things will continue.
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Sexism knows no party
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Anyway: it looks like a top-level post (subject "Lawyering") disappeared and the replies are all spread out across the comments thread. Not sure what happened there; anybody else seeing this?
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I also just noticed that - I just assumed commenters were using Re: Lawyering as their title, you know, like a weird fad.
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Nah. The original comment looked something like this:
That's pieced together from quotes in replies. There may have been more; I don't remember.
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'Try multiple solutions and see what works' might be a good idea when faced with a problem in other areas of life, but when it comes to legal matters(outside of a legal filing) it tends to be counter-productive, as one statement can undermine another, leaving both working against the one who made it.
My guess is that this mess is the result of the several lawyers giving often conflicting pieces of advice, paired with a 'I'm rich, I can do what I want' mentality that doesn't work so well when faced against an equally well funded opponent.
That said, and as disgusting as it is to contemplate, I imagine it is working in the way that it's primarily intended, as it's making a large spectacle of two large companies facing pressure for having the audacity to publish the articles, which is likely to make smaller, less well funded companies/groups much less likely to follow suit.
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I'd sure say so.
"Vaguely apologize, take a leave of absence, and announce you're going to therapy" sounds like Bloom. "Threaten a meritless defamation suit" sounds like Harder.
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If Harder sues, those NDAs will be pierced . . .
Harder puts his clients at more risk with his antics, not less. I am not impressed with his litigation skills. His business and moneymaking skills? Yes. His skills in getting sugar daddies like Peter Thiel to pay for cases under the table? Yes. But the truest litigators mitigate risks for their clients.
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It would be incredibly foolish and self-destructive for Weinstein to go through with his threat to sue.
That doesn't mean he won't do it; he's a narcissist with poor impulse control who's used to getting his way.
But if Harder doesn't warn him that "By the way if we go through with this all that stuff you paid people not to talk about becomes legal for them to talk about," then Harder's the next one Weinstein's liable to sue.
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Leftist Spin - Its the fault of society
Now had this been a Republican, Mr. Fowler would have been busy lambasting the Republican and denigrating his/her character for these vile misogynistic actions.
So when a Democrat does something "bad" the fault lies with society. But when a Republican does something "bad" it is the result of their evil disgusting character. Relative moralism.
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Try looking at commentary from actual left-wing publications and see if anyone is hesitating to denigrate Weinstein's character.
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Seems that the left, now that the story has been exposed, has expressed massive faux outrage. They had years to expose and failed to be outraged.
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We put up with bullshit because it suits us, NFL teams will allow protests, wife beaters, drug users as long as they help the team win. The second they don't, they are gone. Companies allow harassment as long as the person makes the company tons of money, when that stops, they make a big deal and fire the person.
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Awww - poor baby, that certainly proves your point. /s
Everything is right/left? I guess that would make life a bit more simple for you.
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If that doesn't give you a moment of pause, then you simply aren't skeptical enough.
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There are multiple issues here, ranging from the free ride successfully wealthy people are given over and above their victims, to instiitutional problems with major corporations worldwide. If you're dumb enough to let yourself get fooled into team politics and attacking a strawman scapegoat, this will keep happening again and again. It was true when this stuff was related to "conservative" boys' clubs, it was true when it was the Catholic church, it's true when it's so-called "left-wing" Hollywood. Stop playing this idiotic game and get to the root of the real issues.
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Cool story, bro.
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There's a difference between "Let's not publish this story because Weinstein's a big player on the left and he asked us not to" and "Let's not publish this story until we have enough proof, so that Weinstein can come at us with his high-priced lawyers and we'll be the ones left standing at the end of it."
The fact that they did eventually publish it, once they had all of their ducks in a row, helps me believe that it was the latter, not the former.
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Is it too late to write a story?
Maybe the NYT should put you on retainer in preparation for the next breaking story and whether they should publish or not.
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Er, you mean like how Fox News did for Ailes and O'Reilly?
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As for character, while it's no doubt true there is such a thing as rape culture and the only way to break it is to build consensus on the way to treat female human beings. Rape culture pervades the Republican party. That is why things like this happen: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/man-accused-raping-12-year-old-joint-custody-child-article- 1.3550890
Shall we beat the judge up online for having bad character? Perhaps. But it'd be more effective in the long run to educate people since they really, truly believe that wimmin be ho's so it's okay (or not that bad, really) to mistreat us.
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Remember reading a news piece about political conventions and the number of hookers that travel to them. Seems the GOP far out does the Dems in this category.
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Know what's irritating to me?
The actual victims may have been those who have nothing to report because of not jumping in bed with Weinstein.
Now make no mistake: the earlier the casting couch habits are curbed, the better. And it really sounds like Weinstein did not stop in time and so his past is getting dug out.
But it seems to have been a bit of a culture thing. At the "Lifetime award" celebration of George Lucas ("Star Wars"), Carrie Fisher ("Princess Leia") concluded her actually not all that celebratory speech with something like "I sure hope I slept with you for getting that role, because if I didn't, who else was that guy?".
So I do suspect that Weinstein is not a particularly singular pick, and we'll see all-in-all a tiny exposed sliver of the tip of the iceberg sacrificed for celebrating the new way of doing things. Sort of like the Nuremberg trials. Well, it sort-of worked then. The narrative changed and the culture follows, at least for a while.
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Please explain how one is no longer a victim simply because they "do not resist enough" ?
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Paltrow and Jolie went on the record stating that they were having none of that.
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"difference between a prostitute and a rapist."
This part of your comment does not make a lot of sense.
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If the woman agrees, that is ok? Everything is on the up and up?
You really have some screwed up ideas there skippy.
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Now that Weinstein has fallen from grace they can finally seek the justice they had no chance of getting in the first place.
It is reasonable to demand proof that they were in the same location as Weinstein on the day and time of the alleged incident; I believe in due process for all. This means we don't judge either party without evidence. Weinstein is only accused at this point, and yes he has admitted to some misconduct but that doesn't mean he did everything he was accused of. Let it come to court and let the whole disgusting mess be exposed there.
Integrity can be very expensive, Alice.
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So while it's easy to condemn them for saying nothing at the time, don't forget we're asking them to give up everything in exchange for having their careers ruined and no hope of justice. I wouldn't be able to do that.
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I have no idea how I would react.
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It would have been great had they been able to successfully able to stop this behaviour years ago, but reality states they would not have been able to do so without changing the system itself. Which, hopefully, these revelations will go some way to doing.
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That said, this many people have come out, so there are probably many, many more who still aren't speaking out. Are the ones that came forward more, or less, courageous and praiseworthy than those who are even now remaining silent?
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Indeed I would argue that it is now in the self-interest of victims, of whatever severity, to come forward so as to avoid an unplanned surprise disclosure by others. Such involuntary discovery would prompt a raft of awkward questions around the reasons this extended silence: perhaps the implied 'bargain' was a good one, possibly a career boost to compensate for a lack of talent. Or of course the episode may just be too traumatic to re-live. In any event continued silence would require uncomfortable explanations best avoided.
To address your question directly, aside from the first handful of victims, any subsequent public disclosures involves little or no personal risk and so cannot be classed as courageous. There is no reason to 'praise' this newfound openness, unless accompanied by an apology for the damage wrought upon others by their silence. That would indeed be praiseworthy, if unlikely.
I refer you to (Ahem...) Alice's Razor which states in terms:
"For most moral dilemmas the more difficult choice is usually the right one"
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Even coming forward now, they are taking a risk on not being believed and therefore risking their reputations. Don't be too quick to condemn a woman for not behaving as you think they should when you have never been in such a situation yourself. I've seen a case where a child recorded her daddy molesting her by leaving her webcam on, and the jury let him go because she didn't seem upset enough. We can't imagine what she went through just to bring the case or what her home life is like now.
Empathy is not a weakness.
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So, the right choice in the moral dilemma of whether to stay silent or come forward is now to stay silent?! That's the conclusion that would follow from disclosure both being more in their self-interest and involving no risk, and the more difficult choice being the right one, and, may I say, I find that to be an absurd conclusion.
For the record: I've read stories by and about abuse survivors, stories which say that the victims have a tendency to blame themselves for the abuse. My personal opinion is that, regardless of how many people spoke up first, it is still a tremendous act of personal courage to publicly re-visit that kind of traumatic event, one where you know (but can't quite bring yourself to believe) that you weren't the one in the wrong.
It means having faith in the public at large to place the blame where it properly belongs (on the abuser, not the victim) -- and you don't have to look far to see people blaming the victims, even with all of this evidence mounting against Weinstein. It's hard to believe, but I read somewhere that someone wanted victims coming forward to apologize to the other victims for not speaking up earlier, as if the fault rested with them for being intimidated and not with the abuser himself for doing the intimidating. Would you really want to come forward into that atmosphere?
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