UK Teacher Shows Student's Swimsuit Photo From Facebook To Class Assembly To Teach Her A Lesson

from the shame-the-shamers dept

Fri, Oct 10th 2014 1:08am — Timothy Geigner

I would imagine that if a teacher wanted to convince children that the internet -- which is not especially dangerous for kids -- actually is especially dangerous for kids, there must be a myriad of ways to go about it. One could, for instance, simply assign a Law & Order SVU marathon for homework. What the teacher probably shouldn't do is call a class assembly on the subject and then blast a bikini picture from one of the attending students' Facebook accounts to everyone attending.

A 15-year-old says she was humiliated by a teacher who showed an enlarged picture of her in a bikini to more than 100 other students during a school assembly. Children at Eggbuckland Community College in Plymouth, Devon, were shown the photograph taken from her Facebook profile to illustrate the pitfalls of posting private images online. Unknown to the schoolgirl, who has not been named, staff had taken her swimwear photo off the internet. It was blown up and added to a portfolio of other pictures then shown during a packed school assembly.

What's crazy is that this isn't the first time this exact sort of thing has occurred. We had an almost identical story in the States roughly a year ago. There is simply so much lunacy in this to unpack, it's difficult to know where to begin. Let's begin with the entire premise that a fifteen-year-old girl wearing a bikini is an appropriate target for slut-shaming. I wasn't aware that a fifteen-year-old girl was supposed to be so ashamed of her own body that she should not be pictured wearing what all kinds of fifteen-year-olds wear at public beaches all over the place. What the hell?

Add to that the trauma she must have experienced having this photo sprung on her in an assembly of her peers and used in a way to suggest she should be ashamed. It seems like the chief lesson about online safety being taught is to be exceptionally careful of the teachers at their school. A useful conversation could have been had with the students about how to use Facebook's privacy features to keep certain images from being publicly viewed and so forth, but instead the entire focus is on one girl wearing a swimsuit. Anyone actually think that the discussion the kids were having coming out of that assembly was actually focused on their own safety?

And the response on behalf of the school, while apologetic to the mother of the young girl, is hysterical.

A Plymouth City Council spokesperson said on behalf of the school, whose motto is 'Learning, caring, achieving': 'We cannot comment on the incident itself. 'The advice given to children and parents is that it is very difficult to ensure any picture is completely private and it is important to positively manage their online identity and profile and think carefully before sharing personal content.'

It sure didn't seem like a whole lot of thought went into sharing the young girl's personal content, so maybe it's time to review your own lessons?

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That Anonymous Coward (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 1:42am

Perhaps the mother needs to raise the very serious question of why an adult is trolling childrens pictures online.
Why one in a swimsuit was selected, perhaps one should investigate if this was done on school owned computers, and do any of the images qualify as child porn.
They wouldn't want to be the school that enabled a pedophile would they?

Lesson - No matter how much power you think you have, there are ways to take you down by turning your own methods against you.

Perhaps next time they should consider if the zeal to teach a lesson doesn't go far over the line and teach a much different lesson about those with power abusing that power over someone.
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- Stuart, 10 Oct 2014 @ 8:04am
  
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  Look. Schools are run by notoriously stupid people. But either that photo was one she was ok with the world seeing or it was not.
  If she is embarrassed by it maybe she will think much more about what she put on the internet.
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  - John Fenderson (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 8:45am
    
    Re: Re:
    "But either that photo was one she was ok with the world seeing or it was not."
    
    This statement completely avoids addressing the problem with the school's action here. The reason she was humiliated was not because everyone saw the picture. It's because the picture was used to publicly humiliate her. Context is everything.
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  - That Anonymous Coward (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 10:35pm
    
    Re: Re:
    You were perfectly okay with using your credit card to purchase things online, why are you mad someone else is using it now?
    
    Perhaps she never intended an adult to see the picture, let alone decide to turn her into an example.
    
    Perhaps she needs to find who took the picture, if it wasn't a selfie, and file a copyright lawsuit. This image was taken and used without any consent and the person who did so was paid for doing it. The school should have to answer for why they provided a platform for this infringement and why they do not have a DMCA agent to accept service of the notice.
    
    Stupid should hurt, because sometimes that is the only way to make sure the lesson is learned.
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Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 1:49am

I think the teacher has a point here, evidenced by the students reaction.

If there is any sort of "humiliation" from this picture then it's due to the picture being somehow more public. As far as I can see the student OK'd it for every one of her friends and teachers to see when she uploaded it.

tl:dr if you are not happy for an image to be seen by anyone and everyone don't publish it on the internet.
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- Goyo (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 4:14am
  
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  If there is any sort of "humiliation" from this picture then it's due to the picture being somehow more public.
  Or maybe it's due to the picture being used "to illustrate the pitfalls of posting private images online" and "to suggest she should be ashamed", not just "the picture being somehow more public".
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  - Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 4:43am
    
    Re: Re:
    I agree that schools should be educating students about internet privacy and safety issues.
    
    But public humiliation, especially of a 15 yo kid under these (apparent) circumstances, is abuse.
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  - Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 5:35am
    
    Re: Re:
    Yes, what she'd done was used as an example of why uploading stuff you don't want everyone to see is a bad idea. No, The only person who brought shame into this is Tim, you're mixing up source and opinion.
    
    At the end of the day if this stops those students from uploading pictures they'll later regret then the lesson was well taught.
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    - Chronno S. Trigger (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:09am
      
      Re: Re: Re:
      It's not a picture she would have latter regretted. It was a picture of her at the beach. The embarrassment came from an authority figure slut shaming her. I don't care what any teenager says, the opinions of someone in authority changes what they think.
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- Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 5:38am
  
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  I think the teacher is an idiot here, evidenced by their stupid idea(s).
  
  If there is any humiliation here it is the entirety of society that should feel humiliated by this person.
  
  tl:dr victim blaming is stupid.
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  - Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 5:54am
    
    Re: Re:
    And there is no victim blaming going on here.
    
    Maybe I'm just not keen to hate on educators but honestly, pulling up a slightly embarrassing photo and pressing the point home that actually the entire world has access to this pic is a very valuable lesson.
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    - AJ, 10 Oct 2014 @ 6:15am
      
      Re: Re: Re:
      "pulling up a slightly embarrassing photo and pressing the point home that actually the entire world has access to this pic is a very valuable lesson."
      
      A valuable lesson no doubt, but the method of instruction was absolutely horrible and demonstrated a complete lack of judgement by the teacher, and over-site by the administrators. They could have easily shown a non-embarrassing photo and achieved the same goal.
      
      "This was an error of judgement: the member of staff had not intended to cause any embarrassment'."
      
      Even the school admits that it was "an error of judgement".
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    - John Fenderson (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:47am
      
      Re: Re: Re:
      I suppose it is a valuable lesson. And that lesson is that you can't trust authority figures.
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- Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:22am
  
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  She's a 15 year old child , we as adults should be guiding children , not putting them down and singling them out In public view, there's no excuse for it ,none .
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- Spaceboy (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:44am
  
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  Maybe the student was comfortable with the image and herself until a teacher decided that she didn't fit in and there was something wrong with her. When the teacher selected her picture she passed judgement on the girl.
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- Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:48am
  
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  WRONG - you would never expect to have your photos shown in such a manner (using it as an example of being shameful IN FRONT OF YOUR PEERS). It was literally a personal attack. She has to see these people on a daily basis - you dont think that will cause stress?
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G Thompson (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 1:57am

I for one recommend giving the Eggbuckland Community College's teachers & staff details as well as the Plymouth Council members details to 4chan to see what 'private' pictures they can find not just on Facebook but from anywhere.

These pictures should then be given to the world so they too can decide if they want there personal photos shown in an ABSOLUTE public and niche forum too.

As for those who think it's ok for the picture to be shown to a WHOLE school full of the image owners peers, then they should also consider the copyright and defamatory actions that could also be commenced against the school. No fair use in the UK, Privacy laws are highly specific especially when related to minors, and unless they got specific permission to show the picture in this way then they have no authority, whether the picture was available as world viewable on facebook or not.
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- Kaemaril (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 2:06am
  
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  There's no "fair use" but there is "fair dealing", and other exceptions, and it's entirely possible the use of a photograph in these circumstances could be valid, albeit stupid.
  
  https://www.gov.uk/exceptions-to-copyright
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Ninja (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 2:44am

It is a pity that at this age one usually have a lot of insecurities and surely isn't mature enough to deal with such an incident in an epic way. Bragging about how hot she is and that the old hags (aka: teachers) in school were just jealous (the women) or pedos (the men) would have been epic. Sure she should sue for the 'shaming' even in this case but it would be twice as epic.

If you could have your older-self experience in your teenage body things would get pretty epic around Earth (though truth be said each age range has its own awesomeness).
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Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 3:40am

Child pornography
This is likely child pornography and a serious crime.

Otherwise, UK is famous for having arcaic criminal prohibitions the teacher may have violated.
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- nasch (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:07am
  
  Re: Child pornography
  This is likely child pornography and a serious crime.
  
  How is a photo of someone in a swimsuit pornography?
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DS, 10 Oct 2014 @ 3:54am

"Let's begin with the entire premise that a fifteen-year-old girl wearing a bikini is an appropriate target for slut-shaming. "

That's what you get out of this? Oh dear, has TechDirt fallen down the SJW hole as well?
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- nasch (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:08am
  
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  Oh dear, has TechDirt fallen down the SJW hole as well?
  
  Perhaps you could explain what that is.
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  - Chronno S. Trigger (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:14am
    
    Re: Re:
    SJW: Social Justice Warrior. Usually considered a bad thing as they tend to go far over the top and do more damage to the cause.
    
    What DS is saying is that taking a picture of a 15 year old and calling her a slut for posting it isn't a bad thing.
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  - The Groove Tiger (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 8:30am
    
    Re: Re:
    He's basically shaming Tim for using "feminist lingo". It's like calling him socialist for using words like "healthcare". Basically, he's "SJW-shaming" him.
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- nasch (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:26am
  
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  OK, so are you saying that it is an appropriate target for slut-shaming, or that this wasn't slut-shaming?
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Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 3:59am

given that facebook dosn't allow for minors pictures to be posted publically, unless she lied about her age on her accout, the picture wasnt actually "public" and one of her "friends" explicitly betrayed that trust. if anyone should be shamed it is the teacher, especially given that they weren't even entierly correct.
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Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 4:47am

The real problem is that human bodies are seen as embarrassing.
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- Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 5:11am
  
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  Apparently she was not embarrassed of her picture otherwise she would not have posted it in the first place.
  
  She is embarrassed because an adult used that picture as an example of something you should not do.
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Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 5:14am

FUCK THAT TEACHER
Its none of her goddamned business. She should not be allowed around school kids and should be fired immediately. What in the fuck is the matter with people? I just found my beautiful cat IZZY dead with a pellet shot in her gut. What the fuck? She never hurt a flea.
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- Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 5:17am
  
  Re: FUCK THAT TEACHER
  Also, (I'mnot done yet) If I were that girl's parent, I would sue that teacher for everything she has and everything she will ever have and sue the school without hesitation because that teacher was stalking her on tyhe internet.
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  - Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 5:29am
    
    Re: Re: FUCK THAT TEACHER
    Also (I'm Not Done Yet) That girl should come to school dressed in the very bikini that teacher tried to shame her of and walk into the school with her lawyers.
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LduN (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 5:15am

So in other words, with some simple logical extraction, cops in the US are educating the public about how dangerous criminals can be... be being criminal themselves? Genius!!
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John Cressman, 10 Oct 2014 @ 5:32am

Hmm...
So... let me get this straight... in copyright maximalist terms ... the school took a private pictures - to which the student or parents most likely had copyright assuming the laws are similar in the UK to the US - and used it WITHOUT permission in a public presentation.

What do we do? SUE! SUE! SUE!
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AJ, 10 Oct 2014 @ 5:34am

FIRE THEM ALL
My moral compass just exploded. Not only does this teacher need to be fired, everyone involved that didn't speak out should be fires as well. Teachers are in a position of power. They are partially responsible, along with parents, for the education and emotional development of these children. Public shaming of a child (not that being in a bathing suit is shameful) under ANY circumstance should never be allowed, much less condoned. WTF were they thinking??!!
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None Of Your Business, 10 Oct 2014 @ 6:43am

UK Swimsuit Kerfuffle
It's not "child pornography!" This was at a junior college and the assumption can be made that the vast majority of students are of legal age.

Also, if you have a problem posting a comment without using profanities, you have more serious issues!
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- Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:48am
  
  Re: UK Swimsuit Kerfuffle
  Read the article, the girl is 15, that is under the legal age of consent.
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  - nasch (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 8:14am
    
    Re: Re: UK Swimsuit Kerfuffle
    Read the article, the girl is 15, that is under the legal age of consent.
    
    It doesn't matter how old she was, the photo is not pornographic. Without sexual content or at the very least nudity*, it's not child porn.
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    - Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 11:52am
      
      Re: Re: Re: UK Swimsuit Kerfuffle
      That very much depends on who is defining what is child porn. Some of those people driving the law making seem to think that any photograph of a child, and especially any of 'partly clothed' children, is of interest to a pedophile, and therefore pornographic.
      The UK nanny state has become somewhat extreme on child protection, to the extent that making any physical contact with a child for whom you do not have responsibility, or photographing kids in public, puts people in danger of the police taking action against them.
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    - John Fenderson (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 12:07pm
      
      Re: Re: Re: UK Swimsuit Kerfuffle
      "Without sexual content or at the very least nudity*, it's not child porn."
      
      I don't know about the UK law on this, but in the US, this is not true. What makes something "child porn" has a large subjective component -- if the intention is to cause sexual arousal, it's child porn. Whether the actual content is overtly sexual or involves nudity is not necessarily important.
      
      Even so, the intention in using the particular picture involved in this story is clear, and it's clearly not child porn.
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      - Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 12:27pm
        
        Re: Re: Re: Re: UK Swimsuit Kerfuffle
        Even so, the intention in using the particular picture involved in this story is clear, and it's clearly not child porn.
        
        The nature of the picture, and not its use, is what determines whether it is porn. Further its use in this case can be considered as using it as an example of a pornographic picture, i.e. do not post picture like this because ...
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      - nasch (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 4:12pm
        
        Re: Re: Re: Re: UK Swimsuit Kerfuffle
        What makes something "child porn" has a large subjective component -- if the intention is to cause sexual arousal, it's child porn. Whether the actual content is overtly sexual or involves nudity is not necessarily important.
        
        "Section 2256 of Title 18, United States Code, defines child pornography as any visual depiction of sexually explicit conduct involving a minor (someone under 18 years of age)."
        
        http://www.justice.gov/criminal/ceos/citizensguide/citizensguide_porn.html
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- Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 2:49pm
  
  Re: UK Swimsuit Kerfuffle
  The school is the sorta equivalent of a US middle/high school - the OLDEST students in there are 18, the youngest 12. The picture was of a 15 year old. And BTW, it wasn't a bikini- it was cutoffs and a bikini top.
  
  This is also a coed school.
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Marak, 10 Oct 2014 @ 6:46am

I dobt really underatand this one. Publicly available image, nob pornographic. Umm. What?

Its available publicly online without circumventing anything and were telling them off for it.

I cant see the problem here. Unless the image is restricted for some reason, in which case perhaps we should attack the uploader photographer too.
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Jeremy Lyman (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 6:54am

An Object Lesson.
"So class, we should all be very careful of what we put online, as it may be taken advantage of in a way what violates our feelings and rights. Like I've just done with Samantha. ...Right, Samantha?"
[child sobbing on corner]
"Next on the list is bullying. Timmy, you look like a dweeb. Go put your head in the toilet and flush it twice. Micheal, give me your lunch money and stand right here so I can punch you in the stomach."
[whimpering, a punch, and a child falling to the floor]
"Very good. So what have we learned today class?"
[Unison:] "Don't mess with Miss Wormwood or she'll mess with you."
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Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:03am

There's no lawsuit here
While the teacher's actions were stupid and arrogant, they were not:
(a) child pornography - there is clearly no sexual intent involved. Screaming "child porn" at every photo of a kid under 16 is not a healthy reaction.
(b) copyright infringement - copying an image for educational purposes is permitted and dumb though the instruction was, the exception applies to bad educational instruction as well as to good.
(c) otherwise actionable - this kid isn't going to sue anyone over this. Even if she had a cause of action, her damages would be trivial and pursuing the claim would cost more than its value.

The only way this teacher is going to be punished for through the ridicule of the public and their colleagues. Which is rather ironic...
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Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:10am

given that facebook dosn't allow for minors pictures to be posted publically, unless she lied about her age on her accout, the picture wasnt actually "public" and one of her "friends" explicitly betrayed that trust. if anyone should be shamed it is the teacher, especially given that they weren't even entierly correct.

Learning that "friends" can betray your trust is an especially important lesson to learn. Some of those "friends" may have power over you in a "real life" setting. Say, your boss. Or your government.

Or if you must insist on a villain in this piece, a teacher. "Slut shaming"? Hyperbole. Will the 15 year old forget this incident? No. Will it "scar her for life"? Unless she's a particularly sensitive snowflake, no. ... unless your definition of "scarring" includes "reacting to future situations with a memory of past trauma".

I don't particularly approve of the event, but not because of the trauma to the one girl. I'm not approving of it because it singles out the one (or the several). It could be watered down to show "generic dumpy girl in swimsuit", or made better "we've pixelated this sexting picture we 'fond on facebook' because otherwise it would be pornography". You bet they'd pay attention to the picture. And then you say "we forwarded the original of this picture to the parents of the poster. Was this picture yours?"
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- John Fenderson (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 12:09pm
  
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  "given that facebook dosn't allow for minors pictures to be posted publically"
  
  They don't? Then literally every single parent I know who is on Facebook is in violation. This must be the least-enforced rule that Facebook has.
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Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:30am

One is in no position to teach morals, when not exorcizing those same morals themselves.
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Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:32am

Image is probably copyrighted. And the UK copyright laws seem pretty draconian. Seems an intentional infringement claim would be an option.
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tqk (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 7:46am

Brits.
I think all this says to me is (many?) Brits are continuing their penchant for being insufferable prudes, in public.

There must be more to this story than I'm seeing. I suppose it has something with being "singled out" for whatever reason, but I can't see any reason why the kid should feel ashamed for posting a swimsuit photo. I wish the kid had just stood up and demanded of the teacher what exactly was so bad about what she'd done. What was it that the teacher was saying was so worth calling the kid out on?

This reminds me of that multi-year fiasco the US had over Janet Jackson's "wardrobe malfunction." The complainers are saying a lot more about their prudishness than the target of their disdain should take away from it all.
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- nasch (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 8:12am
  
  Re: Brits.
  I suppose it has something with being "singled out" for whatever reason, but I can't see any reason why the kid should feel ashamed for posting a swimsuit photo.
  
  She was embarrassed because the teacher showed a photo of her as an example of something that the students shouldn't do.
  
  I wish the kid had just stood up and demanded of the teacher what exactly was so bad about what she'd done.
  
  That's easy to say from the perspective of an adult, but it's not so easy for most kids to publicly challenge authority figures like that.
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  - John Fenderson (profile), 10 Oct 2014 @ 9:36am
    
    Re: Re: Brits.
    "That's easy to say from the perspective of an adult"
    
    And even for adults, it's not so easy. The vast majority of adults would never have the balls to do that.
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Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 8:10am

If a student had done that the school would have suspended them called the police on them for harassment and the poor kid would have been charged with probably a few things.

Nice way to send the message "once your in power you can do whatever you want, laws are for the little people"
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Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 10:42am

Re: Re:
The lesson is important but they shouldn't bully/shame a student to get their point across. Kids are cruel enough at that age. I can only image what happened in the halls after that assembly.

School slut-shames teen, teen commits suicide.
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Anonymous Coward, 10 Oct 2014 @ 11:45am

Hey now guys, are we sure that this isn't some poor girl's nightmare that somehow transposed itself onto the mortal plane? Did anyone's teeth fall out? Did she get a test that she didn't study for? Because that would more fucking since than a teacher in this day and age bullying a student over a picture.

I have a beautiful 14 year old daughter with self-image issues, and can't imagine anything like this happening to her.
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